When someone is down and out, we mustn’t rub salt into their wounds. We need to rejoice when seeing others in good times. When someone says something bad about us, we must exercise forbearance and diligence. When someone speaks well of us, we must avoid becoming arrogant.
别人说你不好，我们要忍辱 精进；别人说你好，我们不能 贡高我慢。
– Master Jun Hong Lu, Words of Wisdom Volume 5< Words of Wisdom