When you can’t change others, it is best to change yourself. Only by changing yourself can you gradually change others. Only by completely changing yourself can you eventually change your world. You can’t move a mountain towards you, but you can move towards the mountain.
当你改变不了别人的时候，最好的方法就是改变自己。
只有改变自己，慢慢地你才会改变别人；只有彻底改变自己，最终才可以改变你自己的世界。
山如果移不过来，那你就自己过去吧。
– Master Jun Hong Lu, Words of Wisdom Volume 5
