TO FORGIVE OTHERS IS TO BE KIND TO ONESELF
Master Jun Hong Lu: If you wish to receive help from others, you must first offer help to others; if you wish to be loved by others, you must first love others; if you wish to gain benefits, you must first let others gain benefits from you; a tolerant person is able to transform a foe to a friend. There are two things that you must learn to endure in life – one is to learn to endure hardships, and the other, which is more important, is to learn to take the short end of the stick.
Source: Master Jun Hong Lu’s Public Talk, Melbourne, Australia, 20 November 2016