By gathering with kindness the causes and conditions in this Human Realm, you gain the ability to harness affinities.
However, becoming attached to affinities means being dictated by them. As a result, liberation will be beyond your reach.
Like flowers and plants, causes and conditions change with the season. Therefore, by taking causes and conditions too seriously, you will suffer the consequences. As Buddhists, we always should accord with causes and conditions.
用善良的心态
去完成人间的因缘聚合，
你将能驾驭缘分。
如果你执着于缘分，
你将被缘分所驾驭，
你就不能得到解脱。
因缘如同花草，
随时节不同而改变，
所以过度地重视因缘，
你就会尝到果报。
学佛人应该随顺因缘。
– Master Jun Hong Lu, Words of Wisdom Volume 10
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