Judge the conditions before speaking, and be considerate about the other party when discussing a problem. To cultivate yourself in a corrupt society, you must be like the lotus, which remains untainted by the mud from which it grows.
讲话看条件，谈问题为对方着想，
在社会中入污泥而不染，
才能修成莲花。
Master Jun Hong Lu, Words of Wisdom Volume 9
